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Making Your Relationship Work For You - 3 Steps to Getting a Commitment

Have you ever wondered how to go about getting a commitment? Do you long to take the relationship with the man in your life to the next step? Do you think that there is something you could do to get him to commit to you and only you? There is. In three steps you can work on getting a commitment from him.

Step 1- Don't push him.
Guys don't do well being pushed. Yes, they are slow, but if you go fast and make him feel pushed into a commitment then he will either run or resent you. So, let him be slow. Let him go at his own pace, and make sure you don't push him.

Step 2- Enjoy your time together.
Have fun with him. It is important that you have a lot of fun. This gives him lots of good feelings and good memories with him and in turn he will fall for you a little more each time you see each other. Enjoy doing new things, learning new things, and going new places with one another. Aim for seeing and doing as many things as possible. Don't settle into a this is always where we go and always what we do. Instead play pool at every bar in town and try all the Chinese restaurants in the area. The more different places you go and different things you do the more positive memories he will have. If you always go to Tom's Grill and Bar than those memories will blend together and seem like fewer events than they were. Getting a commitment from him requires that he have a reason to choose you.

Step 3- Spend some time apart.
While you want to make sure that you have a lot of great experiences together, you also want to make sure he appreciates you and has time to realize how he feels. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. This saying has even been proven scientifically and it holds true in relationships as well. Don't answer every phone call, don't jump on ever chance for a date, and be busy with other things in life as well. This should include your job, your hobbies, and your family and friends.

These three steps will take your relationship from where it is now to a commitment. This is because you will give him the space he needs to feel comfortable, you will have a lot of fun with him and give him lots of great memories, and finally you will let him realize how great it is with you with some down time. These three steps will help you in getting a commitment.

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